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“Compassionist Counseling Services aims to win the war for mental health wellness by countering the destructive effects of shame with unconditional positive regard and unfettered compassion.

Mission Statement - Nicole McDowell-Horn, Founder, Compassionist Counseling Services LLC

Compassionist?

Why “compassionist” instead of “compassionate”? That’s because compassion is my life philosophy. I seek to act with compassion not just in the therapy hour - but in every interaction in my life. In this way, I may be considered a “compassionist”; Or, a strong believer in compassion.

Compassionist Counseling Services Core Values

  • The cornerstone of Compassionist Counseling Services LLC is, of course, compassion. Compassion has a unique ability to lower the defenses of those with hearts hardened against attacks. This softening and vulnerability is mandatory for therapeutic effectiveness, because you can’t pull a box through a locked shut door. Compassion is the key to unlocking that door with the message, “You are not alone”.

  • Unconditional positive regard means no matter what circumstances you bring to the therapy hour, you will be respected and your strengths and achievements will be emphasized. I genuinely believe in your ability to overcome all odds - and I want to help, not judge.

  • The freedom, power, and right of a client to direct their own mental health care is crucial to the therapeutic process. This means from start to finish, everything that is done in therapy is done with the client’s values, preferences, and needs, as well as efforts! Change doesn’t happen without you.

  • Though we may suffer, we may make meaning out of our suffering and discover purpose for our lives. By building our understanding and tapping into our innate resilience, we can take power from those painful experiences and build a life anchored to our deepest values.

About Nicky

Training & Education

-Bachelor of Arts in Communication, Minor in English

-Master of Arts in Counseling

-Introduction to Equine-Assisted Learning and Therapies (4 Hr)

-Live Online Mindful Self-Compassion (21 Hr)

-The Inner Child Explained: How It Impacts Your Emotions, Thoughts, & Behaviors (3 Hr)

-Motivational Interviewing (12 Hr)

-Eye on Ethics: General Ethical Guidelines for Excellent Practice (3 Hr)

-ARC Model Framework (1 Hr)

-Transference and Countertransference (1 Hr)

-Ethics and Guardianship (1 Hr)

-Compassion in Therapy: Healing Trauma with Compassion-Based Approaches (14 Hr)

-Compassion-Based Approaches to Working with Shame (14 Hr)

- Advanced Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills Training (12.5 Hr)

- EMDR Basic Training (IN PROGRESS - 50 Hr)

Skills & Experience

-Began clinical experience counseling clients ages 13 and up in 2022

-Created The Nicky Loves You Show and Compassionist Counseling Services LLC in 2025

-Skilled at identifying connections between current problems and previous experiences in life

-Skilled at finding the good in everyone

-Skilled at caring for everyone

-Skilled at empowering/encouraging others based on their own strengths

-Skilled at perceiving hidden emotion or motivation

-Skilled at creatively solving issues

-Skilled at writing and storytelling

Personal Life

I enjoy playing video games and watching movies or TV shows. I love being a part of a theatre production, when I can. I enjoy crafting and writing from time to time. I also enjoy going out in nature and observing it, as well as people-watching. I love stories, cats, love, and SLEEP!